Ignore commenters trashing you. It is very ok to have conflicted feelings about something like this. I think this is a good thing but understand where you're coming from. Let me tell you my family's story.
I have a brother with developmental disabilities. Not Down Syndrome, but something similar. He (and I) were lucky enough to be born into an upper-middle class family where my brother went to a school where people were kind to him and where services were available. Despite everything going about as well as it could, it still is a major tax on my family. Constant fund-raising for the home he's living in. Major medical problems through out his life. Things like that. When I agreed to kids with my wife it was on the condition that we do genetic testing and abort the fetus if there was an issue.
My mother has invested her life into this child and loves him more than anything. One day we were talking about death and I casually said something along the lines of "as long as I don't see you at <brother's name> funeral" I'll be ok. Implying she should die first so she doesn't have to deal with the sadness of seeing him die. She then said that she wanted my brother to die first. I was stunned. I asked why. She said she wanted to know he was taken care of. It completely floored me. People with Down's (and similar disabilities) can bring so much joy into this world. They can live very happy lives. I understand how it can be hard for people who don't have my experience to feel like you're feeling. However, I wouldn't wish it on anyone. And I think it's a good thing for society to stop babies being born that are so disabled they'll never be able to take care of themselves.
I have a brother with developmental disabilities. Not Down Syndrome, but something similar. He (and I) were lucky enough to be born into an upper-middle class family where my brother went to a school where people were kind to him and where services were available. Despite everything going about as well as it could, it still is a major tax on my family. Constant fund-raising for the home he's living in. Major medical problems through out his life. Things like that. When I agreed to kids with my wife it was on the condition that we do genetic testing and abort the fetus if there was an issue.
My mother has invested her life into this child and loves him more than anything. One day we were talking about death and I casually said something along the lines of "as long as I don't see you at <brother's name> funeral" I'll be ok. Implying she should die first so she doesn't have to deal with the sadness of seeing him die. She then said that she wanted my brother to die first. I was stunned. I asked why. She said she wanted to know he was taken care of. It completely floored me. People with Down's (and similar disabilities) can bring so much joy into this world. They can live very happy lives. I understand how it can be hard for people who don't have my experience to feel like you're feeling. However, I wouldn't wish it on anyone. And I think it's a good thing for society to stop babies being born that are so disabled they'll never be able to take care of themselves.
Just my two cents.